The BreakUp

Breaking up with the person you want to spend the rest of you're life is like living with no air. Memories keep flooding and burning you. Even the tiniest piece would made you cry. Even the happiest party song would make you mad. And even places would imprisoned you. 

The transition is the worst stage of letting go. We tend to fight for the one we love, even if that person kept on dumping us. Talking mad and taking it back. The unusual attention was doubled or tripled but no attention was taken back. Throwing ourselves on the bed, tears drippin and moanin like someone died. 

The "what if" i did this, "what if" i didn't keep running through you're mind. What have I done wrong? What did I miss? Why did he/she left? Why why why? 

That crazy love songs is killing you. Singing to that Taylor Swift song of "We're never getting back together" with a heavy heart. Started to collect some quotable breakup quotes to post on facebook and twitter. Acting strong in front of everyone when alone you're not but a wet kitten waiting for a hug.

When in reality, during upbringing years our parents kept on saying that WE CAN'T ALWAYS HAVE WHAT WE WANTED.

Here are some 10 tips I found online on how to fall out of love: (Trust me its useful!)

1. Make a list of all the reasons it wasn't meant to be.

2. See their faults. Nobody is perfect. 

3. Think of what you want from a significant other that you didn't get from this person.

4. Ask yourself if it was really true love you were feeling for this person.

5. Remove as many traces of their presence in your life as you can.

6. Distance yourself.

7. Practice thought stopping, a technique that helps you to become more mindful and in control of what you think (or don't want to think about, as the case may be.

8. Do all the things you've ever wanted to do, that you wouldn't have done if you were still with this person. 

9. Mingle. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to meet new people who share similar interests.

10. Understand that the feelings may never fade completely. You felt close to this person at one point in your life, and while you can eventually realize emotionally that you've grown apart, you will probably always have a soft spot for him or her. At some point, it may be possible to remain friends, but mind the boundaries and don't let your heart fall back into it.

No matter how hard it is. Always think positive. 

Let God be in-charge.

My Top 10 BreakUp Songs

Here my list of BreakUp songs. This may be hard at some point but just move forward. Put on your earphone, forget about the world, volume high and turn on music. This songs will make you cry but eventually you'll get over it.

1. You've made me stronger by Regine Velasquez (a cover by Ram Chaves)

you've made me stronger by breaking my heart
You ended my life and made a better one start
You've taught me everything from fallin' in love
To letting go of a lie




2. Bisan pa cover by David DiMuzio

Bisan pa ug may la-in ka na karon
Ikaw lang gihapon ang higugma-on
Bisan pa ug kasakit lang ang ma-angkon
Basta malipay ka ang tanan akong dawaton



3. Let Her Go by Passenger (cover by Jasmine Thompson)

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go



4.  It's Alright, It's Ok by Ashley Tisdale

No looking back
I wont regret, no
I will find my way
I'm broken




5. Over You by Chris Daughtry

Now that its all said and done, 
I cant believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down like an old abandoned house
What you said when you left, 
just left me cold and out of breath
I felt if I was in way to deep, 
guess I let you get the best of me




6. Help me get over by Jonalyn Viray

There is no easy way of letting go
But I know there’s no sense
In holding on too much to something fading
Help me, Help me
Help me get over you



7.  Where do broken hearts go (cover by Blaire LeVoir)

Where do broken hearts go?
Can they find their way home?
Back to the open arms
Of a love that's waiting there



8. You've got it all by Britney Spears

You got it all over him
You got me over him
Honey it's true
There's just you
You must have been heaven sent
Hearing me call you went
Out on a limb



9. No Surprise by Chris Daughtry

It's no surprise, I won't be here tomorrow
I can't believe that I stayed till today
Yeah, you and I will be a tough act to follow
But I know in time we'll find this was no surprise




10. Breakeven by The Script (cover by Maddi Jane)

They say bad things happen for a reason
But no wise words gonna stop the bleeding
'Cause she's moved on while I'm still grieving
And when a heart breaks, no, it don't break even

So that's it. Enjoy guys.  

SMILE :)