Monday, October 7, 2013
I'll forever be alone. And my dream will always be a dream to walk down the aisle and live happily ever after. You see there is no happy ending, you wouldn't waste money over nothing. My life is a mess. But that doesnt stop me from dreaming. Dreams are free. So here are some photos I grabbed online for my very impossible dream wedding.
My Wedding Cakes!!! hahaha
Instead of luxury cars, I want to ride into a motorbike. Cool!!
I want my groom to wear the same sneakers as I do! And yes! I want to wear sneakers on my imaginary wedding day!! Triple cool!!
Making it unique, I want this hard boiled egg for an invitation.
To make the promise last forever?(choked) I want it engraved. (pwe)
And the only people I want for my wedding are those who are there with me ALWAYS and not for socials only. I want my family complete with my grooms family. Like an ordinary dinner at the beach.
A kiss while the lanterns are floating. AWWWW
I love tulips and I want tulips for my bouquet!
Elegant and consevative look. This dress is perfect with my converse! Hahahaha
My dream wedding will always be a dream.
Friday, October 4, 2013
EDITOR'S NOTE: Today's post comes from our friends atNew Apologetics, a movement sharing a similar mission to Strange Notions. They use new media to dialogue about life's biggest questions, and have generated some great conversations on their Facebook page, which currently has over 65,000 followers. The authors of this article have offered to defend it and engage any questions or criticisms in the comment boxes below. So comment away!
As Catholic apologists, we want to do something that our name would suggest we do far more often:
We’d like to apologize.
By that we mean exactly what you would think; we want to say that we’re sorry. We understand that you might be suspicious right now, that you may be thinking that this is another “tactic” for drawing you in. It isn’t. In fact, having tactics is one of the things we’re sorry for.
You see, historically, we haven’t really known what to do with atheists. We felt helpless, and we wanted to do something. So we did something. You pointed out the ugliness in the way we held our beliefs, but we couldn’t see it because we were afraid.
We were afraid of losing ground to you, afraid (even within ourselves) that if we heard you, we would lose our own hope. It wasn’t all bad; there was something within us (under all of the unsound arguments) that we knew and recognized as true, good and beautiful, but we weren’t able to communicate it, and we thought your objections threatened it.
So, now we are going to come clean. And we are now going to come to your defense as human beings without asking anything of you in return.
To Tell You the Truth
We’ll just come right out and say it: Modern atheist rhetoric definitively smashes typical theist justifications about there being some divine purpose behind human tragedy. It doesn’t matter if the theist gets the technical win because of a slick argument. Debates on this topic invariably position the atheist in the manifestly righteous defense of the dignity of human persons and the right of innocence to go unmolested, while the well-intentioned, but humanistically impaired (and reaching) theist is left trying to sell a deity with inexplicable innocent blood on his “all-good” and all-powerful hands.
God can take care of himself; he doesn’t need our defense like that. Neither do we need to defend ourselves from looking foolish or from seeing what you see as clearly as you see it.
In response to your questions, a simple “I don’t know, but I believe that he’s good” would have been enough. It’s okay to look stupid if we believe he is defending us.
Time to tell the truth and shame the devil: We don’t really believe in God as much as we say. If we did, we would have had confidence enough to admit we were stumped. We would have remained silent out of respect for God, you, and ourselves: “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9: 24).
We pray to have faith enough to see things from your perspective and still know we are safe.
Christian Apologists vs. Home Depot
We once saw a window screen with a sticker reading as follows:
“Warning: Screen will not prevent child from falling out of window.”
If one changes the word “screen” to “God”, then all thinking people who believe in God have a really keen problem. It seems that a pane of glass counts in protecting a child from tragedy, but omnipotence and infinite love do not. All the writings of Christian philosophers piled in a great heap before us do little to take the edge off the meditation introduced by this little sticker. There is no applicable knowledge on the part of the child, no informed consent, the horrendous fact that it’s a real child, an apparent infinity of opportunities for God (all-powerful and all-knowing) to intervene, and yet there is no intervention. Any attempt at explanation which says tragedy of this sort is for a ‘greater good’ is absolutely out of touch with reality.
As Catholics, we do believe that there is a reason for God to not prevent evil, and are assured that he never fails to bring a greater good out of every evil. However, this recognition has nothing to do with God “permitting” evil in the sense of “approving of innocent suffering for some higher purpose”.
We have often used those P-words (permits and purpose) to mean God does not oppose evil perfectly, and we were wrong.
All talk of God permitting the tragic suffering of children as a means to an end or as the intentional ‘shadow’ component in a masterful cosmic painting is such that it cries to heaven for vengeance, but it was the best we knew how to say.
The view of the Catholic Church is not the view of the apologists in this regard, and we were wrong to let you think it was.
“God is infinitely good and all his works are good… We must therefore approach the question of the origin of evil by fixing the eyes of our faith on him who alone is its conqueror.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 385)
Wisdom. Arise. Let us be attentive: The conqueror of evil is not also its architect. And infinite goodness admits of no degree of compromise with evil.
These are not sophisticated, subtle, or hard to grasp theological nuances; they are the basic recollection of that easy and obvious standard of justice which we human beings (made in God’s image) intuitively upheld and radiated as children – before we got intimidated and started making excuses for God we had no right to make.
We believers, in ascribing a divine purpose to things like cancer and freak accidents (thus making God the “architect of evil”) did not intend harm (or blasphemy), but we are deathly afraid of what happens when we let the “other guy” be right.
This is a problem, and you atheists have been right to be offended and worried about us.
A Revival of Purity of Heart
“Purity of heart is what enables us to see.” (Pope Benedict XVI, Jesus of Nazareth)
To have a pure heart is to love what is good and hate what is evil. On the atheist view, people of goodwill can easily hate what is hateful (i.e. childhood cancer), and love what is good (i.e. children). To do so is to attain purity of heart to a large degree. It easy to do, and (let’s be honest) it also happens to be a huge relief. Nowadays, there are a lot of people who care more about suffering people than they care about being cast into hell by a cosmic tyrant, and that’s a heroically good stance.
A revival of “purity of heart” is coming upon our culture without much trying, and this is the biggest reason why people are leaving churches in droves.
And we need not be afraid to see with such purity of heart because God guarantees the outcome: “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God” (Matt 5:8).
What we need to learn from you is to see is that good is good and bad is bad, lest our hearts remain impure.
A Moratorium on Inhumanity and Blasphemy
“And aren’t we—the lovers of the Word, the people who sing of the Good, we believers—aren’t we the ones who are most sensitive and most upset by our observation and experience of evil?” (Pope Paul VI, General Audience November 15, 1972)
Not really. Did we forget something important?
“The Lord says to his disciples: ‘My soul is very sorrowful, even to death; remain here, and watch’ …while it refers specifically to Gethsemane, it also points ahead to the later history of Christianity. Across the centuries, it is the drowsiness of the disciples that opens up possibilities for the power of the Evil One. Such drowsiness deadens the soul, so that it remains undisturbed by… all the injustice and suffering ravaging the earth. In its state of numbness, the soul prefers not to see all this; it is easily persuaded that things cannot be so bad..." (Pope Benedict XVI, Jesus of Nazareth)
But it really is that bad, and you were trying to tell us all along.
Our offering has been unacceptable to you for one reason: Because it truly has been unacceptable.
We asked you to believe in a God who took away your hope of simply loving what is good and hating what is bad. And we condemned you for not selling out like we did.
We wanted our offering to be enough. It wasn’t. And we wouldn’t listen because we thought it was only our right to have the offering.
It is why Cain killed Abel. And Cain’s punishment is the same as that of the apologists:
“If you till the ground, it shall no longer give you its produce. You shall become a constant wanderer on the earth.” (Genesis 4:12)
And this is the cure:
“Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit.” (John 15:5)
While we fell asleep, you atheists who are most sensitive and most upset by your observation and experience of evil have remained with the Lord in his agony. And we’re not asking you to believe us about that. Instead, we confess that we need to learn from you.
“Therefore, do not make any judgment before the appointed time, until the Lord comes, for he will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will manifest the motives of our hearts, and then everyone will receive praise from God.” (1 Cor 4:5)
Sunday, September 22, 2013
1. Hindi niya type ang pagmumukha mo.
2. Masama ang ugali mo.
3. Hindi niya trip ang mga trip mong tv shows.
3. Sabi sa horoscope niyo hindi kayo bagay.
4.Wala ka sa radar niya at di ka niya napapansin.
5. Baka may syota ang isa sa inyo.
6. Kung wala siyang syota, baka iba ang crush niya
I hope you'll enjoy Bakit Hindi Ka Crush ng Crush Mo quotes.
"Diba pag inlove ka, tanga ka?"
"Tsaka true love 'to. I can really feel it from within."
"Sobra naman to, Babe."
"Sobra kasi kitang mahal eh."
"Music doesn't die. Nag-iiba lang talaga ang taste ng tao sa music. Maybe we just have to adopt to that change."
"Sandy, pagod na ako. Pahinga muna tayo. Walang problema sa'yo, Sandy. Ang bait-bait mo nga. We need space."
"San po tayo miss?"
"Kung saan pwede makalimot."
"Hindi ko na po kaya. Gusto ka na pong mabulok."
"What the fuck are you talking about? Get out!"
"Sino pang maniniwala sa kasal niyan?"
"Pamela, you can't walk out on me."
"Im not walking out. I'm resigning."
"Dalawa lang yan. Gusto ka niya or ayaw niya sa'yo. Walang overlap."
"I can turn you in to that... Someone exciting, more sexy. You will learn how to love like a man. Love like it's a game. Hindi ka na muling iiyak."
"Pasensya na po sir. Broken hearted dress ko po to eh."
"So everyone has to know?"
"Parang di ko yata kaya 'pag sa buhay ko'y wala ka. Aanhin ang pag-ibig kung puso ay nag-iisa?"
"Themesong ko rin yan kay Gardo."
"Sinong akong tatawagin? Sino aking hahanapin? Bakit ka pa nakita? Bakit pa nakilala kung ang puso ko ay iiwan mo lang at sasaktan."
"Ang harsh na ng mga comments. Akala nila wala na akong karapatan na masaktan. 10 months pa lang pero gusto lang nila na makamove on ako."
"Wasak na Puso: Akala ko ikaw ay akin, totoo sa akong paningin..."
"Sabihin mo ang mga katagang ito: Hindi na ako iiyak."
"Hindi na ako iiyak."
"Hindi ka na iiyak."
"Yun, hindi na siya iiyak."
"She's very talented. Pangit nga lang."
"Eh ano ngayon kung pangit ka"
"Tandaan, daig ng malandi ang maganda."
"Sir, sex agad? Hindi pa pwedeng love muna bago sex? Marriage muna bago sex?"
"Hi, I'm sandy. Uhm, can I ask you a question?"
"Sure? What is it?"
"Do you believe in love?"
"What the fuck."
"Sir, do you believe in love? Kami kasi sa Boso Boso naniniwala sa true love."
"Sir, medyo mapili po talaga ako pagdating sa mga lalaki."
"Ang gusto ko po talaga sa lalaki ay yung marunong mag-gitara. Yung marunong gumawa ng kanta... Yun po yung ideal guy ko."
"Yung buhok mo medyo bothersome. Pwede ba natin gawan ng paraan yan?"
"Sir, sa simula pa po, ito na yung best look ko."
"Hey Sandy. Wag kang tatawa kung hindi appropriate sa situation ha."
"Do me a favor Sandy. Don't be needy. Let the man call you first."
"Kung mag-lalandian kayo. Pwede kayo nalang guys. Wag niyo na akong idamay."
"Denial ang first stage ng pagmamahal sa'yo."
"So do you like the change?"
"No personal questions. That's the rule."
"Ganyan talaga. I'm the boss."
"Pero alam niyo sir, na-google ko na kayo."
"So, did you like what you saw?"
"Mas gusto ko po tong hard copy."
"That was a happy melody."
"Chief, I told you. I'm okay now."
"I'm happy that you cancelled that wedding with Laura."
"Why don't you sit down and let's talk and let's drink."
"Naka-move on ka na ba talaga?"
"Oo naman noh. Matibay na to." "Matibay na matibay na."
"San ka dito? Safe pero boring. O dito, delikado pero fun. It's your decision."
"Be charming sa parents ng lalaki. Lalo na sa lalo niya."
"I'm beginning to love this girl. She tells the truth."
"How is he doing?"
"Lumalaban pa rin. Siguro po para sa inyo."
"How is he as a boyfriend?"
"Mayabang. Gagawin niya po yung kahit na anong gusto niya. Tapos ikaw po, sunod-sunuran lang sa kanya. Parang ayaw niya po na makilala siya ng ibang tao."
"Grabe, parang magazine ang buonh pamilya niyo. Bawal ang pangit."
"Ikaw din ang may gawa ng best night ever sa life ko."
"Malandi ang tingin ko sa iyo. Dati kasi hindi pero ngayon confirmed. Malandi ka talaga."
"She said yes and committed na siya sayo? Paano ka nakakasiguro? What do you know about commitment?"
"Meron kang main world at ang mga ibang aspeto ng buhay mo tulad ng trabaho, pag-ibig at iba pa ay dapat magkahiwalay. Kasi kapag-nagunaw, madadamay na ang lahat."
"We don't wanna burn bridges."
"Mapapatay ko talaga yang bitch na yun. Ahas siya eh."
"Sa lahat ng babae, mabait sila so don't feel special. Diba sabi ko sayo don't assume anything diba?"
"How can you tell? You were so drunk. Pano mo nalaman na totoo? It was just a test. Everything was a test."
"Practical exam, ganun lang?"
"Ang lupit mo namang teacher ano."
"I'll text you when I need you."
"I saw how she looked at you. At nakita ko kung paano mo siya tinignan. You were very happy. You even played a song for her. And I even told myself that this time, Alex is really in love."
"I'm glad you're back."
"Hindi naman po ako ganun ka-sensitive. At least ngayon alam na natin kung ano ang kailangan natin sa isa't-isa."
"Puro lang kayo paasa. Payummy. Ako naman, pa-victim. Pero wala na akong magawa kundi umasa nalang na makarma kayo... Oh ano masaya ka na? Pakshit ka. Gago."
"Magbago man ang feelings mo. Huwag na huwag mong babahuhin ang sarili mo."
"You gave me A & 1 because you know na babagsak pa rin ito."
"This is not about Laura."
"It's all about you. You have to move on. Laura is out of this. Tell me, Alex, what's wrong with failure?
"Dahil pagod na pagod na ako. What's the point of trying again?"
"Anak, kumusta na kayo?"
"Keribels naman nay. Salamat tinanggap niyo ako."
"Ako wala na po akong trabaho nay pero okay lang po. Kaya ko po 'to. Pasensya na kayo sa amin nay ha.
Alam nyo nay kahit ganito tayo, sobrang humahanga po ako sa inyo kasi nakayanan nyo pong tumayong mag-isa kahit iniwanan kayo ni tatay. Gusto ko balang araw na maging kasing tatag ninyo."
"Alagaan niyo ang mga puso niyo anak ha kasi yan tung totoong mag-papasaya sa inyo. Kasi hindi yan pwedeng paglaruan at kahit kailan, hindi niyo pwedeng dayain. Andito lang ang nanay. Hindi ko kayo pababayaan."
"Kanina pa kita tinitingnan. ang pangit mo kasi.The face of a broken-hearted."
"I knew na gusto niyang ibalik ang singsing, na ayaw na niya akong pakasalan. Before she does anything, inunahan ko na siya. Iniwan ko siya. She was relieved. So I checked upon her and I looked at her tweet. Sabi niya finally he left me. And I've never been so happy."
"Kung hindi mutual ang feelings nyo, pwede gawin mong mutual. Kung ayaw niya sa yo, ayawan mo rin siya."
Always rwmember na 4 Rs of moving on.
1. Return stuff.
Magkita kayo hindi para sa inyong final ---... Magkita kayo para magsulian ng gamit. Lahat ng investments niyo, material or emotional ibalik niyo na yun.
2. Reverse bitterness.
Mag-isip ka ng mga bagay na pangit sa kanya, mga bagay na ayaw mo sa kanya.
Humanap ka ng kapalit. Kung gaano ka-controversial ang technique na ito, ganun din siya ka-effective.
4. "Ang pang-apat na R. Revenge. Mag-revenge ka sa past self mong wasak. Tama na yang paemo-emo. Masaya pa ang life. Mas masaya ang may kamomol. Pero ang mas masaya ay ----."
"I should be proud of you. You're such a good student, even better than the teacher. I turned you into that but you turned me into this."
"San ka ba? Dun sa girl sa past or dun sa girl sa present?"
"I'm not like your grandfather. You guys love music and I don't... I was the one who failed, not you. "
"I just wanted you guys to believe in me."
"Alex, natalo ka. Eh di natalo ka but we have to cut our looses. Tanggapin ang kahihiyan and stand up again."
"Better opportunities. Better people. And a bettter relationship."
"There's a girl out there I still need to say sorry to."
"Pero siya yung nag-ayos ng buhay ko. Siya ang nagpasaya sa akin and I wanna thank her for that."
"Tama na muna ang love. Quota na ako eh."
"I wanted you as my girlfriend that night. I wanted that kiss. I loved you that night. I was real that night. "
"Paano kung paiiyakin mo ako ulit?"
"Eh di ako mag-pupunas ng luha mo."
"Paano kung hindi tayo happy ending?"
"Eh di uulit-ulitin ko hanggang maging happy ending."
"Okay lang maging tanga eh. Kung in love, eh di inlove. Wala ka ng magagawa dun."
"Kasing sarap ng pagka-broken hearted ang pagkakaroon ng tunay na true love."
"Today is the day that the Lord has made."
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
How time flies fast. My baby turns 2 years old. Akai spent his birthday this year at our main house with some relative and friends.
Akai with MomiLa at the Dolce Nombre de Maria Chapel
Akai with his Nursery roomie, the birthday celebrants..
with Akai's guard friends, Tito Addi, Tita Christine and Momila.
Chocolate cake c/o Momila, cupcakes made by Tita Napnap (red velvet and chocolate cookies and cream) so yummy!!
Thanks DadiLo for the handa!
with DadiLo and Momi!
Tired from the party! Zzzzzz
I love you baby, let's see what next year brings..
Friday, September 6, 2013
Breaking up with the person you want to spend the rest of you're life is like living with no air. Memories keep flooding and burning you. Even the tiniest piece would made you cry. Even the happiest party song would make you mad. And even places would imprisoned you.
The transition is the worst stage of letting go. We tend to fight for the one we love, even if that person kept on dumping us. Talking mad and taking it back. The unusual attention was doubled or tripled but no attention was taken back. Throwing ourselves on the bed, tears drippin and moanin like someone died.
The "what if" i did this, "what if" i didn't keep running through you're mind. What have I done wrong? What did I miss? Why did he/she left? Why why why?
That crazy love songs is killing you. Singing to that Taylor Swift song of "We're never getting back together" with a heavy heart. Started to collect some quotable breakup quotes to post on facebook and twitter. Acting strong in front of everyone when alone you're not but a wet kitten waiting for a hug.
When in reality, during upbringing years our parents kept on saying that WE CAN'T ALWAYS HAVE WHAT WE WANTED.
Here are some 10 tips I found online on how to fall out of love: (Trust me its useful!)
1. Make a list of all the reasons it wasn't meant to be.
2. See their faults. Nobody is perfect.
3. Think of what you want from a significant other that you didn't get from this person.
4. Ask yourself if it was really true love you were feeling for this person.
5. Remove as many traces of their presence in your life as you can.
6. Distance yourself.
7. Practice thought stopping, a technique that helps you to become more mindful and in control of what you think (or don't want to think about, as the case may be.
8. Do all the things you've ever wanted to do, that you wouldn't have done if you were still with this person.
9. Mingle. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to meet new people who share similar interests.
10. Understand that the feelings may never fade completely. You felt close to this person at one point in your life, and while you can eventually realize emotionally that you've grown apart, you will probably always have a soft spot for him or her. At some point, it may be possible to remain friends, but mind the boundaries and don't let your heart fall back into it.
No matter how hard it is. Always think positive.
Let God be in-charge.